To hold my couples in a safe place as they work together to discuss their fears. I work with you as you learn how to do that with and for your partner. Discover how to be the safe and supportive place for each other that you need to grow as individuals and together as a partnership and team. As you come across challenges in your life and your relationship you will learn how to manage that together. Also, how to make these challenges work in your favor as a couple to grow a deeper bond with one another and create that space of self-exploration and setting and achieving life goals together. We will explore questions you haven’t asked yourself. We will work on truly listening in order to navigate emotions that can cause blocks within the relationship.

When they first come in my couples ask me if what they are experiencing is “normal.” “Do other couples experience this too?” Most of the time my answer is yes this is common among many couples. The themes are often the same even if they manifest in different ways.

They want to have the same relationship they had when they first started dating and things were “easier” or things were “fresh and exciting” as they got to know each other.

They also want to better be able to communicate their true feelings with their partner without the fear of rejection and having to be defensive.

The lack of communication tools my clients have when talking with each other gets in the way of how they want to live their life with their partner. They find that they are also not being the kind of partner they want to be for their loved one while at the same time their needs are going unmet as well. Hence, another part of the cycle. This causes the confidence to come back from these hurts to wain indefinitely.